NancyJohnson Posted 9 hours ago Share Posted 9 hours ago I've been playing for close to 40 years; intense periods of where I can't get enough travel alongside periods where I've kind of stepped back a bit and not done much. Ebbs and flows. Currently, in a quiet period. Decided a few days back that I'd like to get back to band stuff, aside from some remote recording stuff (during my recent recouperation) not done anything serious in a year, but to be honest for a few months of the last twelve I was simply incapable of doing anything, so I advertised on JMB. I had a couple of hits fairly quickly, a band about ten miles from me looking for a bass player. The private message was fairly confident, an element of bigging-up, links to audio. Had a listen and well, oh dear. I'm a solid enough player (some of you will have seen me live, I suspect), I'm not John Myung or Geddy Lee by any stretch, but I'm confident in what I do. All I want is a band that plays original material and something with a bit of speed, creativity and passion, in a punky/alternative vein such as (notable mentions) 3 Colours Red, Alkaline Trio, Sugar, Baby Chaos, Summercamp. Not much to ask is it? The message I got made out the band were something of greatness. I listened - and sometimes I think I should have been working in A&R - it was woeful, formulaic, rubbish. First track I gave a listen right through, nothing special. The second I just listened to the first 10-15 seconds (awful) and then jumped through it a few times. Terrible. Then track three was more of the same and I stopped listening. Woeful. Begs the question, are my expectations too high? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
12stringbassist Posted 9 hours ago Share Posted 9 hours ago You know what you would like to do. Hold out for that. It is there. Advertise for like-minded people. Don't wait for them to advertise. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor J Posted 9 hours ago Share Posted 9 hours ago Unless you think you have the ideas and the drive to make a silk purse out of it, walk away. Never compromise on the standard of music, you'll just be unhappy and leave, sooner or later. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris_b Posted 9 hours ago Share Posted 9 hours ago Unless you're Bob Dylan, playing in a band, to audiences, is always a compromise. Sometimes it's a 50% fit sometimes 90%. Do you want to play or sit around for the next 10 years waiting for perfection to drop in your lap (unlikely) or get out there and make a 50% band a 90% band. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluewine Posted 8 hours ago Share Posted 8 hours ago (edited) "I'm a solid enough player (some of you will have seen me live, I suspect), I'm not John Myung or Geddy Lee by any stretch, but I'm confident in what I do. All I want is a band that plays original material and something with a bit of speed, creativity and passion, in a punky/alternative vein such as (notable mentions) 3 Colours Red, Alkaline Trio, Sugar, Baby Chaos, Summercamp. Not much to ask is it? " I don't think you're asking for enough. What about compatibility with the guys you'd be playing with. Are you looking for a band that gigs a lot or only a few times a year? Location, I'm assuming you want a band to be local to your area? Good luck, let us know if you find the right band for you. Daryl Edited 8 hours ago by Bluewine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fretmeister Posted 8 hours ago Share Posted 8 hours ago To quote Zakk Wylde: "If someone tells you to play something you don't believe in. Tell them to go f*cking die" Bit harsh to be fair, and ignores the concept of being paid enough, but not necessarily the wrong mindset either! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lozz196 Posted 8 hours ago Share Posted 8 hours ago I don’t think it’s high expectations, it’s just knowing both what you want and what you don’t want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neepheid Posted 8 hours ago Share Posted 8 hours ago You either like the material or you don't. I've quit bands because the new stuff the band leader was coming up with was not to my tastes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelDean Posted 7 hours ago Share Posted 7 hours ago I've been in bands that I didn't believe in. Lack of experience/personal belief kept me in them and it was a waste of time for me. Hold out for the right thing and try Gumtree, local Facebook groups etc. I've personally never found anything worth it on JMB... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyJohnson Posted 7 hours ago Author Share Posted 7 hours ago I used to write an awful lot - material musically similar to the above bands I've mentioned - despite the genre I prided myself on keeping things short, the no repeat guarantee of verses/choruses unnecessarily (and so forth), part of the joy for me was writing, then going through this delicious stage of rearranging everything in a full band context, cutting stuff. The stuff I listened to yesterday was so f*cking dull. While the production was OK, The singer was just terrible, the whole band was so lackluster. There just wasn't any life or go in proceedings. Makes me laugh when guys are going, 'We want to take this as far as we can.'. Oh, stop. I'm certain that I could take those tunes and improve them significantly just by cutting them up and pasting the sections back together. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bilbo Posted 6 hours ago Share Posted 6 hours ago I think it is one of the greatest frustrations in music making - finding people who are interested in playing the music you want to play and who are good enough to play it. The 'better' you are (subjective, I know), the harder it becomes. Even if I could out Jaco Jaco, where is my Zawinul, my Shorter, my Erskine etc? I guess they find you if you are good enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skybone Posted 6 hours ago Share Posted 6 hours ago Unfortunately, I know exactly what you're saying. I quit my last band earlier in the year for a number of different reasons, most of them stemming from the singist. I put a few ad's out there, saying what I was after (original material, etc.), but was still approached by covers only bands. Also approached by a couple of people wanting to do originals who sent links to their material, but when I listened to it, calling it "woeful, formulaic rubbish" would be generous. Anyway, @NancyJohnson, I don't think it's too much to ask. You can only polish a 💩 so much, until you realise it's still a 💩. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burns-bass Posted 6 hours ago Share Posted 6 hours ago I don’t want to be too critical, but unless you join an established band you’ll need to put in a lot of work. The best bands are a cohesive unit. It takes time, investment and a lot of frustration. To provide some context, this year I’ve done 30 gigs with one band and only now are we starting to sound really good. The bands in your list will have spent 30 odd years playing the same songs. No wonder they sound amazing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neepheid Posted 6 hours ago Share Posted 6 hours ago 1 minute ago, Burns-bass said: I don’t want to be too critical, but unless you join an established band you’ll need to put in a lot of work. The best bands are a cohesive unit. It takes time, investment and a lot of frustration. To provide some context, this year I’ve done 30 gigs with one band and only now are we starting to sound really good. The bands in your list will have spent 30 odd years playing the same songs. No wonder they sound amazing. Respectfully, I disagree. You can't deal in absolutes when it comes to people. If the material doesn't immediately speak to me in some way, or show some degree of promise or potential, then I'd rather not waste my time with it. My current originals band (The Inevitable Teaspoons) formed out of the ashes of another one semi-imploding (which finally died this year). We started afresh with a clean slate and without the main songwriter. I'm terrible at tooting my own horn, but I think we sound quite good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burns-bass Posted 5 hours ago Share Posted 5 hours ago 39 minutes ago, neepheid said: Respectfully, I disagree. You can't deal in absolutes when it comes to people. If the material doesn't immediately speak to me in some way, or show some degree of promise or potential, then I'd rather not waste my time with it. My current originals band (The Inevitable Teaspoons) formed out of the ashes of another one semi-imploding (which finally died this year). We started afresh with a clean slate and without the main songwriter. I'm terrible at tooting my own horn, but I think we sound quite good. Of course if the people you meet can’t play or they don’t like similar music then that’s different. Why would you waste time then? But no collection of musicians who’ve just met is going to sound like a pro band without a lot of time and commitment. Plus, you need to build trust in each other then you can shape the songs more and more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fretmeister Posted 5 hours ago Share Posted 5 hours ago 43 minutes ago, neepheid said: Respectfully, I disagree. You can't deal in absolutes when it comes to people. If the pay packet doesn't immediately speak to me in some way, or show some degree of promise or potential, then I'd rather not waste my time with it. Fixed it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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